An encounter with a friend this weekend raised something in my mind. I am confused! Why do females always try to change a male’s mind? This is something that seems to be in females’ make-up, we always believe that we can change a man’s mind! The fact is, this doesn’t always work out so well for us and we are left holding a crap hand of cards.

“If a man tell you that he is not ready for a relationship; believe him the first time.” – Steve Harvey.

Life is too short to waste time trying to change a man’s mind. It is my firm belief that a man shouldn’t need help knowing if he wants you or not. If he tells you that he isn’t ready for a relationship, believe him, no matter his reasoning. I’ve seen cases where the man is still hanged-up over his ex. Do you know what that makes him? It makes him emotionally-unavailable! While I applaud you females for thinking you can make him emotionally-available or change his mind, aren’t you forgetting your value and all your self-worth that you will probably have to sacrifice if you fail?

Another thing that I noticed is the males that say one thing but their actions contradict what they are saying! It is not right to mess with another individual’s head! Let your “nay be nay”! You can’t be saying no to a female and then your actions are saying “maybe.”!

My two cents? Females if the man says he is not ready, believe him the first time! You deserve a man who is sure about you! You deserve a man who knows where he wants you to fit in his life! You deserve CERTAINTY.

XOXO,
Chañel.

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