I Caught Me Some Standards… :)

The year is almost at an end. With only two weeks to go I decided to do a personal SWOT analysis to see how far I’ve come emotionally. I started 2015 on an emotional low and on many occasions I thought I wouldn’t make it but thanks be to God I did.

Now, that is not what I wish to ramble about tonight. After reading Steve Harvey’s Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man earlier in the year, I wanted to see how much of his advice I’d actually practised. In treating others how to treat me, I am happy to report that I GOT ME SOME STANDARDS…

It all comes down to your confidence level, body language and the way you carry yourself. Persons’ attitude and behaviour towards me have changed because of my change in these three areas. I’ve realized that it’s innate in every male but some just need to reminded that it’s his duty to PROTECT when he is escorting a lady. It is not within me to demand it, but I use my body language to show that I expect it. You will be surprised at how quickly men will rise to the occasion!

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I’ve also learnt that letting go of baggage is important and indeed I’ve let go of the hopes, dreams and person that I thought was integral to my happiness and you know what? I’m still very happy.

I’ve accepted that although I’m ending the year single, it’s not a crime. You know why? I am an oyster and I refuse to waste my pearl (thoughts, body, emotions) on a fisherman who will just throw me back into the sea after he has taken my treasures. LADIES, GENTLEMEN, YOU ARE WORTH MORE… Respect yourself, make others respect you.

XOXO
Chañel

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I am a dynamic young lady who loves the Lord and seek to have a joy that no one can take away. My all-time favourite thing to do is gaining discoveries by design from My Father during our time each day. Reading, learning and trying new things falls behind in a close second place. My dream is to use my God-given talents to positively impact as many people as possible. As a proud Wolmerian, with a zest for life, I adhere to the “Age Quod Agis” motto in that whatsoever I do, I always do it to the best of my ability.

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